ABC's of Anger Control
Profile of an Abuser
Spousal abuse occurs in people with the following personality profile:
1) High levels of jealousy
2) Tremendous need to control others
3) a Sense of ownership of one's spouse.
Men who are violent to their wives believe they own them, in the same way that they
own their car or golf clubs. The cure for this profile is self-inquiry. Realize that
your anger is YOUR responsibility. Your partner doesn't make you angry. Your partner
does something and your reaction is anger. Give up any idea of ownership. Nobody owns
anybody. Examine the root of the anger. Examine the desire and realize that the anger
comes from fear of losing the desired person.
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